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  1. not so much an ending as a beginning

    herebedragonflies asked helpymchelperson:

    Helpy, if gay marriage is legalized in Minnesota, where will it end?

    Usually, a marriage ends only with the divorce or death of one of the spice. (With the move from “husband and wife” to “spouse and spouse”, we find that the slightly irregular plural-formation rules of English come to the fore; in this case, by analogy with “mouse” and “mice”, we find that the plural of “spouse” is “spice”.)

    However, it may be you are curious, not about where a given gay marriage will end, but rather, the end of the process of which “gay marriage is legalized in Minnesota” is but one small part. There are two aspects of this to evaluate. The first is the question of what Minnesota might legalize next, and when they will run out of things to legalize. For this, Helpy would hesitate to guess; even Helpy’s drawn-on glasses cannot always pierce the vale of the future. You may confidently assume, however, that whatever it is, people will threaten to move someplace where it is already legal in protest.

    The other is the question of where the legalization of gay marriage will end. In the United States, the answer is probably either Alabama or Utah. Alabama holds some notoriety for being the last state to repeal their law against interracial marriage (it was overturned by the US Supreme Court in 1967’s Loving v. Virginia, but remained on the books until 2000). Utah’s strong Mormon presence has a reputation for influencing legislation significantly. Of course, it’s quite possible that the question will end up settled at a federal level before that — the thirty-three year gap for interracial marriage is a little surprising, maybe, but not impossible.

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      1. Source: wretchedoftheearth
        And when we frame all women as being someone’s wife, mother or daughter, what are we teaching young girls?

        We are teaching them that in order to have the law on their side, they need to be loved by men. That they need to make themselves attractive and appealing to men in order to be worthy of protection. That their lives and their bodily integrity are valueless except for how they relate to the men they know.

        The truth is that I am someone’s wife. I am also someone’s mother. I am someone’s daughter, and someone’s sister. But those are not the things that define me, or make me valuable in this world. Those are not the reasons that I should be able to live a life free from rape, sexual assault or any kind of violent crime.

        I have value because I am a person. Full stop. End of argument. This isn’t even a discussion that we should be having.

        So please, let’s start teaching that fact to the young women in our lives. Teach them that you love, honour and value them because of who they are. Teach them that they should expect to be treated with integrity because it’s a basic human right. Teach them that they do not deserve to be raped because no one ever, ever, ever deserves to be raped.

        Above all, teach them that they are people, too.
        —  I Am Not Your Wife, Sister, or Daughter. I Am a Person (via tiredtalk)
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          1. miraclekid:

            It was brought to my attention earlier today that this fabric existed, so naturally I had to buy some of it.

            It is called “Pursuit of Happiness”. Or at least according to the bar code on the end of the bolt.

            I plan on making pillow cases out of it.

            You can find it at Joann’s.

            God bless America.

             AMAZING.

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              1. decolonizingyourmomtonight:

                As an Indigenous Feminist, capitalism and my oppression as a Native Woman are intertwined within the colonial power. To liberate ourselves, patriarchy, colonialism, white supremacism and capitalism ALL must be destroyed. Right Wing politics doesn’t liberate me, right wing politics contains the chains used to trap me in a cycle of cultural destruction and intergenerational trauma.

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                  dreamcatcher85:

                  PLEASE REBOLG THIS! We need this film to happen. Please, watch and spread the word. My daughter and her father’s family are from this reservation. People need to know what really happens on native land. 

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                    badmetaphoraboutajourney:

                    reminder that not all hate between girls is </3girl hate</3 and while yeah hating a girl for being a “slut” is fucked up a woman is entitled to hate another woman for being racist or transphobic or even just a general butthole. solidarity is conditional and you can’t go around crying internalized misogyny every time a female doesn’t want to be your friend. 

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